Where are my Hoe-tendencies? | Are women naturally domesticated?😱

jakob-owens-208999Men always get labeled as promiscuous creatures?

He’s a slut, he’s a hoe, he’s a freak.
Got a different girl everyday of the week.” ~ Lil Kim – Crush on you

And unless you are a scorned woman, most of society accepts that label as okay. Well maybe not okay but, it is normalized.

Women on the other hand are looked down upon when they play the field. Dating more than one guy at a time is a No No. Even though many of us do it just to avoid falling too hard for the one we ultimately desire. Lending me to believe, we gals are naturally domesticated beings.

We aren’t build like men and our mentality of forming communities is innate. Women in a sense are the actual village. And men… well, you are just there to bring the meat. Literally and figuratively.

So go forth ladies and seek out the best provider for your cubs and your retiring years. Lead with head and think with your heart. Most importantly be safe. I keep my treasure under lock and key. Hidden under levels conversations, serendipitous moments and cosmic connections. But that is because I know I am a gem. And my guy is searching for me to carry his cubs and spent his aging years with too.


Published by Ashleya Nicole

Ashleya Nicole's uses hip hop culture to influence her writings about life, love and their lessons. She is an avid Jay Z fan and is known to quote him in conversations. ❤️

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  1. Lol… you may not have “Hoe tendencies”, but believe me that the world is populated with women that do, or wish they could date interesting men.
    Especially women with heart wounds or those who have unrealistic expectations of a relationship. So, they’re comfortable with their lifestyle, are in love with themselves and their careers, and don’t want kids (added responsibility). And they date around.

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  2. There are just sometimes things in life where you have to embrace your hoe tendencies. We are all searching for that one, that special one, but that reckless Break Is needed. Much love. I’ve had the husband and have the kids and my search starts all over again. But right now I’m happy with me and my time. And I’m not trying to be domesticated now. Lol 😂

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  3. I really enjoyed reading this post. As women, I feel that we are put on a pedestal at birth to live a life of purity until we meet that special someone. From there it is embedded in us to think like a lady, and act like a lady should. The double standard plays a major role in this, which dates back to medieval times before it was even called a double standard. Great post!


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