How to Apologize to That Special Girl 😊

Don't tell her anymore lies
unless you love the way she cries.
Instead tell her to close her eyes
and gift her with a spontaneous surprise.
Then watch love stream down her cheek as her tears dries.

Relationships can be challenging especially when dealing with the opposite sex. And fellows let's face it, no one has ever prepared you for this. (In most cultures girls are raised to prepare for marriage and boys are raised to "get money".)

So, let me even the playing field by suggesting this hint. Just apologize! Because the odds are something was done or said and it was misinterpreted. And you don't wanna be out there spreading alternative facts to your girl. Do you?

Here are 4 ways to apologize to that special girl:

Create a Collage.
Nothing says I love you more than showing your lady off to the world. Choose your favorite pictures of the both of you and create a flipagram or flipbook.

What's the difference between the two? One you share online and one goes into her hands. In fact, do yourself a favor and get her both!

Send her Flowers
Yes it's cliche, but it gets your point across. Make sure you send a card with love notes and understanding writing on it. Have them delivered to her job or home. Of course I recommend sending flowers to both places. One with a "work appropriate message" and the other with a "bring that ass upstairs message. You'll thank me later.

Send her to this Blog!
Unless she sent you to this post (lol)… share my blog with her. Sharing information and websites with your paramour shows her you care about the things she is into. Plus, under happenings I offer discounts to several online boutiques.

Say Something
A closed mouth can't get fed. So, open up your mouth. Learn to communicate it a strong and effective way. This means you need to voice your feelings in a calm way. Sidenote… be open to compromises as well.

Comment with more suggestions on how to apologize, I'm sure someone needs the info.

Published by Ashleya Nicole

Ashleya Nicole's uses hip hop culture to influence her writings about life, love and their lessons. She is an avid Jay Z fan and is known to quote him in conversations. ❤️

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  1. Such a lovely post! (I will print this and leave it under my husband’s pillow 😂😂)

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  2. Thank you for this post because apologizing is very difficult
    Not because I have too much pride it’s because when you hurt somebody sometimes an apology is not enough.
    Sometimes nothing you can do to make up for the pain you caused on another person

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